Have you ever watched Duck Dynasty? Those long-bearded, plain-spoken “Robertson rednecks” have some strong family traits. They love each other. They love duck hunting. They love Jesus.
Every family has family traits. Sometimes it’s the way they look, sometimes the way they walk, and sometimes the way they talk. Every family has family traits.
So what about God’s family? What kind of family traits do you see in His children? In the letter of 1 John, chapter 3, we see nine truths about God’s children. This is not an exhaustive list of traits about God’s children. These are just a few. If you are a Christian, you should recognize these in your life!
1. God’s children are loved by God.
Look at how great a love the Father has given us that we should be called God’s children. And we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it didn’t know Him. (1 John 3:1)
2. God’s children will be like Him and see Him as He is.
Dear friends, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet been revealed. We know that when He appears, we will be like Him because we will see Him as He is. (1 John 3:2)
3. God’s children purify themselves.
And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself just as He is pure. (1 John 3:3)
4. God’s children do not continue in sin; rather, they seek to live righteous lives.
Everyone who commits sin also breaks the law; sin is the breaking of law. You know that He was revealed so that He might take away sins, and there is no sin in Him. Everyone who remains in Him does not sin; everyone who sins has not seen Him or known Him.
Little children, let no one deceive you! The one who does what is right is righteous, just as He is righteous. The one who commits sin is of the Devil, for the Devil has sinned from the beginning. The Son of God was revealed for this purpose: to destroy the Devil’s works. Everyone who has been born of God does not sin, because His seed remains in him; he is not able to sin, because he has been born of God. This is how God’s children—and the Devil’s children—are made evident. (1 John 3:4-10a)
5. God’s children love one another.
Whoever does not do what is right is not of God, especially the one who does not love his brother. For this is the message you have heard from the beginning: We should love one another, unlike Cain, who was of the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his works were evil, and his brother’s were righteous. Do not be surprised, brothers, if the world hates you. We know that we have passed from death to life because we love our brothers. The one who does not love remains in death. Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him. (1 John 3:10b-15)
6. God’s children don’t just say they love others — they show love with truth and action.
This is how we have come to know love: He laid down His life for us. We should also lay down our lives for our brothers. If anyone has this world’s goods and sees his brother in need but closes his eyes to his need—how can God’s love reside in him?
Little children, we must not love with word or speech, but with truth and action. This is how we will know we belong to the truth and will convince our conscience in His presence, even if our conscience condemns us, that God is greater than our conscience, and He knows all things. (1 John 3:16-20)
7. God’s children have confidence before God in prayer.
Dear friends, if our conscience doesn’t condemn us, we have confidence before God and can receive whatever we ask from Him because we keep His commands and do what is pleasing in His sight. (1 John 3:21-22)
8. God’s children believe that Jesus Christ is God’s Son. They trust in Him for eternal life, and they follow in His way.
Now this is His command: that we believe in the name of His Son Jesus Christ, and love one another as He commanded us. (1 John 3:23)
9. God’s children have the Holy Spirit living in them to produce spiritual fruit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control.
The one who keeps His commands remains in Him, and He in him. And the way we know that He remains in us is from the Spirit He has given us. (1 John 3:24)